You really need a reason for everything?

My view of life is sort of pessimistic.
I admit, I guess that's how sometimes I hard to get happiness and fulfillment.

"Everything occurred in life comes with a mean."
"For every failure we learn a lesson"

Sometimes I doesn't go along with this ideas.
In fact most of the time, I dislike the mainstream ideas.
Especially those persuasive one.

Sometimes we do blame:
"What a waste of time!"
"It is meaningless."

Of cause, come to think of it, may be you really can get some value, and find yourself actually "learn" something through the process. Most of the time. So people says that everything happened, we learn, we value, we appreciate.

You say if live long enough, you have a different viewpoints.
That's when you think that, it actually is not so critical at all.

But come on, give me a break.
First of all, I am only 23, so it is impossible for me to live long enough.
Secondly, once you achieve another stage of life, of course to you think it is not so critical: Think of it, you have more ability, now it seems easier, but don't think back, with the current mindset, the current you, comparably is another person despite the one who was facing the problem.

Sometimes we do repeat mistakes, sometimes something is unrecoverable.
They are avoidable. Human easily forgets.
What is you forget? Do you really remember everything in life?
May be, but most of them wont be always kept in mind, isn't it?
So it can't be everything has a meaning.

Besides, do you really need a reason for everything? such that you feel the loss is recoverable, or partially compensated?
Actually I would suggest that in some way, some issues is solely pain.
It may be doesn't kill you, someone suggest "It make you stronger" as you are able to tolerate a second wave.
--But, how many challenges really occurred twice in you life?

Somehow, I think.
In a period of life, for some people, it will really be a period of emptiness.
No value of that.
No reason for that.
You don't need it.
You can't be bothered, even.